Our Misconception- A blog on Infertility, Surrogacy and beyond

Spoiler alert: this is not intended to be an uplifting, motivational post, i.e., the ‘might’ I am referring to is not the powerful, awe-inspiring might, it is the might as in ‘could happen.’Candace and I have a surrogate.  She is pregnant with our child.  We are over the moon excited about it.  However, when we talk about plans … [Read more...]

Sheepishly, I can admit I have once before ok ok ok maybe a few times in moments of  weakness, stuffed a pillow under my shirt just to see for that brief second what I would look like if I would have been able to carry a pregnancy. Silly I know, but it is hard not to play into the temptation of wondering what I would look like if things were … [Read more...]

When we first started to work on baby C&C eons ago we naively thought it was going to be sexy-fest with lots of fireworks.  That sexy-fest died out quickly as did the candles when we realized something was wrong.  I mean it’s not rocket science right? Place object A in object B and bada bing bada boom a baby arrives 9 months later. … [Read more...]