We have some exciting news to share and we hope you can join us (virtually) this Sunday, July 28th. Chris and I will be appearing on the MTV show called True Life, I’m Desperate to Have a Baby. MTV’s True Life casting producer contacted us last year after coming across our blog, to participate in an episode focused on people having issues with family building. It was terrifying at first, the thought of having our lives thrown out to wolves in public. Think about all of those Tasty Sneaker comments we already get! But, really, it is kind of a natural step beyond Blog-Land. We will fill everyone in on all of the juicy details after the show airs, but we can give you this teaser: Chris is his normal goofy self and Candace shows everyone the exact way to have an emotional reaction to a fertility med. Spoiler alert, there are no lost limbs, bar fights, or alligator wrestling. Much more to come on the show but really, check it out.
We hope that by sharing our story publicly, we can shed some light on topic of infertility and increase awareness about how infertility affects real people, everyday. The producers did a great job of capturing our story and the highest highs and the lowest lows. We hope you will enjoy it, relate to it, and react to it. Laugh with us, cry with us, and hope with us as you watch us go through our IF journey.
You are invited to participate in our twitter chat leading up to the show, a live chat during the show and we will stay connected to the community as our story continues beyond the show. Feel free to follow us at @rmisconception and join in the conversation at #trueLIFE1in8. There will be several moderators, bloggers, and guests including the author of the book, “The Truth Behind the Secret ‘Infertility’,” Fran Meadows @FranMeadows and the creator of “The Infertility Survival Kit” by My Hopeful Journey @hopeful_journey.
Help us spread awareness by letting everyone in your Twitterspace, Facebook domain, smoke signal, carrier pigeon club, etc. know about the show. If you want, you can simply cut and paste the lines below into whatever social networking site you use:
“Meet Candace and Chris on MTV’s True Life documentary series, I’m Desperate to Have a Baby. It reveals the true struggle of 2 couples going through infertility. Watch the episode premier this Sunday at 2PM est. and join the tweet chat at: #trueLIFE1in8.”
***UPDATE***The premiere of our episode is now tentatively slated to air at 2pm but, check your local listings.
Unknown says
Love you guys! So proud that after all the hard work you put in, this is finally happening!
Chris and Candace says
Thanks, we are looking forward to seeing how things turn out with the show!
Mrs. M ~ a.k.a. ~ April says
That is so cool! Thank you for sharing your lives! I hope to remember to watch.
Chris and Candace says
Thanks Mrs. M, just remember Sunday is funday and hopefully that will help jog your memory ๐
Infertile Private Parts says
So excited to watch and share this as are tons of my TTC IF ladies on IG and Facebook! Much love!
Chris and Candace says
Thank you for your blog love and being excited about the show. We hope to show everyone that sees the episode the ups and downs of IF.
Lynn says
WHAT THE FAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK! Im so excited for you and to ‘see’ you! First off, Im a huge True Life fan. Ill be talking to someone about something I ‘know’ and theyll say where did you hear that? And Im all “I saw it on True Life, duh’. My husband and I dvr’ed True Life ‘Im too attractive’ the other day and then set aside time to have date night and watch it. yeahhhh. ๐ I KNOW you will do your best to bring the pain of IF to light for people so that they can hopefully understand it better. I am out of my mind excited for you to have had this opportunity to help others learn about the world of IF. MUCH LOVE!
Chris and Candace says
Oh Lynn, we love the FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAACK out of you! Please let us know what you think and how the MTV folks did portraying the spiral that is the world of infertility.
Rebecca says
Hoping you can dispel some of the myths.
Chris and Candace says
Thank you for your comment Rebecca. We are really adamant about making sure that the true world of IF is displayed for all to see in the episode. The producers did a great job of listening to our history, feeling our emotions, and bringing exactly that to the episode. We hope you enjoy it and finish watching it with a sense that it really was “True Life.”
Non Sequitur Chica says
Looking forward to it!
Chris and Candace says
Great, thanks!
AiringMyDirtyLaundry says
I’ll be watching it!
Lynn says
you GUYS! Im freaking out watching you both. I wish I could talk to you but twitter hates me. I wish this episode had a happy ending…but since I ‘know’ you, I know you aren’t quite to your happy ending yet. Man…the love between you two is palpable. you can FEEL it.
XOXO
Lynn
mydailyaffirmations says
I feel like I’m watching a mirror image of myself as I watch you guys’ show this afternoon. I was actually approached to do this show over a year ago and thought it was “spam” or fake… I wish I could reach out and hug you guys, because no one understands the pain of infertility like someone who has been through it. I also LOVE LOVE that you got your intralipids mailed to you!! Seriously, that opened a whole new door of possibility for us, so thank you. Tons of blessings in the future for you two.
~chrissy @ mydailyaffirmations.wordpress.com
~J says
Just watched y’alls show. My husband and I have battled IF for almost 5 years now. We decided to skip the IVF road bc my chances were only 10% at having a successful pregnancy. We are almost a year and a half waiting on our domestic adoption match. We know we will be parents and trust God on His plan just wish we knew exactly what His plan was. Thank you for putting yourselves and your story out there. Truly an inspiration! Good luck and God bless!
Anonymous says
Thank you for writing such a good blog , I am very interested.
Just T says
I watched the MTV episode yesterday and your story stole my heart. I blogged about the episode and one of my followers told me about your blog. I am so happy to have found it and I wish you nothing but the best in your journey going forward. I think you are truly a remarkable woman!
Chris and Candace says
Thank you for the blog love!!!!!!! Love it,and even more so thank you for checking out the show. Remarkable no, determined yes. Just as you are!
MrsMann says
I was not home Sunday and forgot to record it. Do you know when it will be re-ran or online? I am so bummed I missed it!
Chris and Candace says
MRSMANN– Soooo here is the skinny on that. It is not online yet and I am not sure when the re-run will come on. SO what someone told me that they did was go on Amazon Shows and you can buy it for 1.99. I know sucks. I am hopeful that it become available soon though! FX that is.
Jessah @ Dreaming of Dimples says
I just found your blog and am too “desperately trying to have a baby”. ๐ I’m looking forward to following your journey. I’d love to watch this show but I missed it. Do you know if it will be airing again?
lizzy says
What happen!? Do you have a baby yet!?
Candace says
Hey there! So much has happened… here check this out! https://vimeo.com/100315508
More so, on Monday MTV’s True Life Updates and Check ins show will feature an update on our story!