Hello all, Typically Candace will write her part and then Chris will write his.  This time though, we decided to write this post together.  Here were the flaming sticks that we juggled: do we say, "To hell with this IVF thing" and plunge into adoption or do we try for one last go at having our own child with a final, no holds barred FET (frozen … [Read more...]

We packed up our car with all things beach related and a cooler packed with copious amounts of wine and beer and did what any wounded couple would do ... Got out of dodge!  We desperately needed a break from all things infertility and to try and shut down our baby-making brains from obsessing for at least a weekend. Once we arrived at … [Read more...]

 We are kinda at that awkward point in our cycle.  One we have visited a few too many times.  Still fragile, walking a fine line between tears and trying to fake normalcy.  Infertility is like a tattoo on your forehead that only you can see.  You try to ignore it, scrub it off, do anything you can to remove it, but it … [Read more...]