Candace: Hear that? Yep, that’s silence being broken folks. Over the past month or so we’ve been a bit quiet lately. Not for lack of life’s events, trust me life has been flying bananas crazy. Mainly because we have been in the process of untangling the knotted up string of what our next steps should be. It was a tough year … [Read more...]
Sometimes You Don’t Always Agree on Next Steps
Where should we go for dinner? Should I wear brown or black shoes? Which hat matches better? These questions, these opportunities for disagreement are readily reconcilable. Even if you didn’t want dim sum for dinner, knowing that your partner did may be enough for you to forget your longings for that delicately prepared 6,000 calorie mega bacon, … [Read more...]
When someone asks “How are you doing?”
Over the past few weeks I’ve been for the most part, silent. It’s totally not me and not how I typically swat away life’s sour lemons. I’ve watched Chris steadily move through the many stages of grief. His denial that this was actually happening, that our second surrogacy had failed and the past 11 months of planning were for not. Then I watched … [Read more...]